Reader with diabetes needs to change lifestyle

DEAR HARRIETTE: I am still living an unhealthy lifestyle that includes consuming soft drinks, despite being diagnosed with diabetes. I recognize that this habit is detrimental to my health and could worsen my condition, but I find it difficult to break free from it. I need guidance on how to shift my mindset and make healthier choices for my well-being. I understand the importance of maintaining a balanced diet and managing my condition effectively, yet I continue to engage in behaviors that undermine my health. I don't know how to cultivate a mindset that promotes self-care and wellness. — Unhealthy Habits, Unhealthy Living DEAR UNHEALTHY HABITS, UNHEALTHY LIVING: Now is the time to get professional help. Engage the services of a nutritionist who can design an eating plan for you. Post it on your refrigerator, and then make the conscious choice to purchase items on the healthy list only. Write out a grocery list and check it off each day. Resist the sweet drinks and other foods that will cause you harm.

In 1781, Germanborn astronomer William Herschel discovered the planet Uranus.

Who’s the biggest loser? We are

One of them looks old; the other looks older. One of them faced a nomination challenge from one of his presidential appointees; the other faces continual calls to step away from the campaign. One of them sees a dystopian future; the other seems stuck in a romantic past.

Mom worries that son is too dependent

DEAR HARRIETTE: My son is often referred to as a 'mama's boy' because of his affectionate gestures toward me, such as kissing my cheeks before school, seeking my opinion on his clothes and requesting I support him during his basketball games. While I appreciate his closeness and love, I sometimes wonder if his attachment to me might hinder his independence and growth. I find myself torn between cherishing our bond and wanting him to develop his own identity and autonomy. How can I strike a balance between nurturing our relationship and encouraging his independence? — Mama's Boy DEAR MAMA'S BOY: It is wonderful that your son adores you. You don't need to push him away. What you can and should do is teach him that the way he cherishes you is how he should treat anyone he chooses as a partner. What you don't want him to do is shower all of his love on you to the detriment of his relationships as he develops them. Talk to him often about how to treat other people and how to make smart choices. Give him chores to do at home, and resist doing everything for him. Otherwise, he will believe that his partner should pick up where you left off and baby him when he is an adult. Teach him independence by assigning him duties that he has to figure out on his own. Let him fail at tasks so that he can learn from his mistakes. Love him, but stop enabling him. For more musings on this topic, read: imom.com/warrior-or-wimp-how-not-toraise- a-mamas-boy.

Partner wants to bring up idea of adoption

DEAR HARRIETTE: Adoption seems to be the only option for my seven-year marriage to work. My wife is unable to bear children due to polycystic ovary syndrome, and this has put a strain on our hopes of starting a family. We have explored various options, but adoption appears to be the most viable solution for us to fulfill our desire to become parents and strengthen our bond.

Economy depends on immigrants

Aheadline in the Washington Post reads'The Economy Is Roaring. Immigration Is a Key Reason.' But Gallup reports, 'Immigration Surges to Top of Most Important Problem List.'

I want a Rod Stewart haircut

Awoman at the party said, 'I like your hair!' This is always nice to hear. My hair is my least endearing feature, primarily because there is not much of it. But since my husband, Peter, started cutting it, I worry a lot less.

CLINTON’S HISTORY 10, 20, 30 AND 40 YEARS AGO

• Top Clinton Middle School scientists listed for Science Fair included David Bearsheild, first place in Behavioral Science; Jenny Barnette, first place in Math and Computers; Mickey Friedrich, first place in Engineering Science; Cari Constien, first place in Earth and Space Science; Jacob Stewart, first place in Biological Science; Jennifer To, first place in Physical Science.

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